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It’s time we
had the talk.

Our boys need us. They’re being exposed to ideas online about masculinity that affect their wellbeing and normalize harmful attitudes toward women and girls. It’s up to us to step in and start conversations that build a healthier sense of masculinity.
Start the Conversation
Get Help

It’s time we
had the talk.

Our boys need us. They’re being exposed to ideas online about masculinity that normalize harmful attitudes toward women and girls. It’s up to us to step in and start conversations that build a healthier sense of masculinity.
Start the Conversation

The pressures
affecting our boys.

Being told to “man up,” hide emotions, and prove themselves through status or sex leaves many boys feeling inadequate, lonely, and ashamed. Today, several manosphere influencers are continuing to amplify these harmful ideas. Not only do those ideas hurt our boys, they also shape how they treat women and girls. Having conversations about healthy ideas of masculinity is the best way to start helping. 

79%

of teen boys aged 16-17 had consumed Andrew Tate’s content, with 52% holding a positive view of him.

59%

of boys have been exposed to manosphere content through unrelated searches.

51%

of teen boys have watched pornography before the age of 13.

Starting the Conversation

Talking to teen boys about masculinity can make any parent feel nervous, which is completely normal. But, if you don’t talk to them, manosphere influencers will. Here are a few helpful tips to get you started:

1. Ask about their online role models.

Who do they like to watch, listen to or follow online? What do they admire, like or dislike about them?

2. Share your own opinions and experiences.

This will help them feel less alone and more willing to open up, ask questions and share their feelings.

3. Do they feel pressure to act a certain way?

Emphasize that there are many ways to be a man, and don’t be afraid of challenging perceptions of unrealistic masculine norms.  

4. Let them know it’s okay to ask for help.

This is key to our boys’ mental health and wellbeing. Boys often hesitate to come forward when something’s bothering them. Let your son know that you are here to help and that you won’t judge them.

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Looking for a bit more help? Check out the links below for additional information and resources.